Hi, I'm Cindra!
 

If you'd told me in my twenties that I'd become a relationship coach, I probably would have laughed.
 

I've been married twice. Divorced twice. I've explored monogamy, open relationships and polyamory. I've navigated neurodiversity, addiction, heartbreak, healing, desire, communication, boundaries and more uncomfortable conversations than I can count.
 

None of it has been perfect.
And honestly...I'm grateful for that.
 

Because every relationship has taught me something I couldn't have learned from a textbook.
 

My first divorce sparked an obsession. I became fascinated by relationships, intimacy, desire, pleasure, communication and everything that makes love flourish...or fall apart.

I wasn't learning because I wanted to become a coach.

I was learning because I didn't want to repeat the same patterns again.
 

That curiosity eventually became a calling.
 

Coming from a wellness background, I saw the same thing over and over again. It wasn't nutrition, exercise or meditation that was keeping most people stuck.
It was their relationships.
 

The conversations they weren't having.

The boundaries they weren't setting.

The intimacy they'd lost.

The stress they were carrying.

The version of themselves they'd forgotten along the way.
 

I realised relationships weren't separate from wellbeing.

They were at the heart of it.

But there was another pattern I couldn’t ignore.
 

Again and again, I met women who thought something was wrong with them.
 

They’d lost their spark. Their confidence. Their desire. They’d become so busy looking after everyone else that they’d forgotten what they wanted, what they needed, and even who they were.
 

They didn’t need another list of relationship tips.

They needed permission.
 

Permission to take up space. To communicate honestly. To reconnect with their bodies. To explore pleasure without shame. To trust themselves again.
 

That’s when I realised something powerful.

When a woman reconnects with herself, every relationship in her life begins to change (including me!).
 

These days, my own relationship still stretches me in the best possible ways. My partner and I are both neurodivergent. We've moved countries, changed careers, nearly walked away from each other, and chosen, again and again, to keep growing instead.
 

That doesn't make me a perfect coach.

It makes me a real one.
 

I don't believe relationships need to be perfect.

I believe they should feel good to be in.
 

Whether I’m supporting a woman to reconnect with herself or helping a couple find their way back to each other, my goal is always the same.

To help create relationships that feel more honest, more connected, more pleasurable and more alive.

Because life’s too short for relationships that don’t feel good to be in.